Is It OK to Give a Funny Gift During a Serious Time?
The short answer? Yes. And also… maybe.
Funny gifts during tough times can be incredibly healing—but only if they’re rooted in love and understanding. So before you reach for the glitter-spraying unicorn card or the fart-scented candle (please don’t), let’s talk about how to do it right.
👀 1. Consider the relationship.
Are you close? Do you get each other’s humor? Have they laughed at dark jokes before—or are they more Hallmark than Ha Ha?
Use your emotional barometer. If you’re not sure, go gentle.
💬 2. Let the humor support, not distract.
The best funny gifts are actually deeply empathetic. They say:
- “I see how hard this is.”
- “You’re still worthy of joy.”
- “Let’s laugh, because crying is exhausting.”
That’s why Ploppals exist. A crochet poop plushie holding a heart saying “I give a sh*t about you” is funny and meaningful.
🚫 3. Avoid gag gifts that punch down.
If the gift feels like a prank, skip it. You want them to feel seen, not laughed at. Focus on uplifting, not embarrassing.
✅ So when is it okay?
When the laughter comes with love.
When you know it’ll land.
When it reminds them they’re not alone—even in the mess.
And if you’re ever unsure, here’s the test: Would you smile if someone gave this to you on your worst day?
If the answer is yes, wrap it up. Leave it on their doorstep. Add a little note that says, “This made me think of you. In the best way.”
Because humor can be healing. As long as it’s offered with care.
Heather
Founder, Ploppals
